As an 18 year old, I know that early marriage can be a difficult decision to make. It’s important to remember that your own self-care is just as important as caring for your partner. In this article, I’ll be talking about how to prioritize your needs in an early marriage while still making sure that your relationship is a priority. I’ll share some tips on how to make sure that you stay healthy and happy in an early marriage, so you can make the most out of your relationship.
Acknowledge Early Marriage Impact
At 18, I’m already married and I know it’s not the usual thing. I’m trying my best to take care of myself, to make sure I’m okay, but sometimes it’s hard. I’m learning to acknowledge the impact early marriage has on my life, so I can prioritize my needs and self-care. It’s not easy, but I’m determined to make it work and find balance.
Identify Support Network
As a young adult, it is important to have a strong support network that can help you take care of yourself. Reach out to close family, friends and mentors to create a safe space to discuss your experiences with early marriage. Also, don’t be afraid to talk to a counselor who can provide you with additional support and guidance. Taking care of yourself should be your top priority, and having a strong support network is an essential part of that.
Set Boundaries & Priorities
At 18, I know that life can seem overwhelming when you have to juggle early marriage, school, and other responsibilities. To help me prioritize my needs, I set boundaries for myself and prioritize what’s important. I make time for self-care, like taking a break from studying or taking a walk in the park. I also try to focus on one thing at a time to prevent me from getting overwhelmed. Taking these steps has helped me take better care of myself and stay on top of my commitments.
Create Self-Care Routines
As an 18-year-old student considering marriage, it’s important to prioritize your own self-care. Creating a routine that puts your needs first can help keep you grounded and give you strength to make decisions. I’ve found it’s been helpful to set aside time for things like exercise, reading, and talking to friends. It may seem like a lot, but making time for yourself can help ensure that your marriage is strong and healthy.
Stay Connected with Friends
Staying connected with friends is essential when it comes to early marriage and self-care. Even if you don’t have the time for regular meetups, don’t forget to stay in touch with your friends. You can always call, video chat, or text them to catch up and get the support you need. It’s also important to be honest and open with them so they can help you prioritize your needs and take care of yourself.
Take Time for Self-Reflection
Taking time for self-reflection is so important, especially when you’re married at a young age. I like to take time to think about my goals and ambitions, and how I can make sure that I am taking care of myself while also being there for my partner. This reflection time helps me prioritize my needs and make sure I am maintaining a healthy balance between taking care of myself and others.
